If it was me Stoneheather, I'd likely allow myself to stew in it until I'm ready to snap. Then I'd snap, kick him out and beat myself up over how insensitive an arse I am.
Counciling for me would only prolong the agony and make for some type of "false realationship" thats only doomed to fail in the long run. When the bad far outweighs the good then it's time for a change of scenery.
SH, one time I actually made a pros and cons list and it pretty much spelled in black and white what to do. You may want to give it a try.
BTW, I'm not against you seeking therapy for the record. I know I personally wouldn't allow myself to be badgered into it though. Either you want to go and work it out or you don't. Going because someone is strong-arming you into it only means your mind won't be too open to new ideas and/or change.
It's funny, this whole topic I've been addressing SH but ina way I've really only been talking to myself, weird.
No matter what SH, you have my caring and support as I'm sure you do of everyone here!
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