Just my opinion
Have you seen any info on the book He's Just Not That Into You? Well it also works in the reverse. You just aren't that into him. No reason to blame or make excuses for him or you- you just aren't that into him. Period. End of story.
If you ever hope to have a civil parental relationship for the sake of your child- I'd suggest you seperate before one of you ends up hating the other. No matter what you do he'll be hurt for a bit- but the longer you drag it out- the longer he'll resent the delay and justify feeling "used"
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