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The end result of whether you stay or leave this relationship is with you. Your the only one who's feeling it and knows this relationship.

Perhaps counseling isn't such a bad idea. It might help you figure out what it is that you want ... to stay with him or leave. It sounds to me like he wants this to work if he suggested counselling. Counselling doesn't hurt.

As far as the baby goes, even if you end up breaking up, he's still responsible for this child financially and emotionally. Staying together in an unhappy relationship because of a child never ends up with great results. The child will suffer emotionally because children know when their parents are unhappy. It's not fun nor is it fair for the child IMHO.

I hope that things get happier for you soon SH. Whatever you decide, I know it will be the right decision for you.