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Originally Posted by Duke
I've had a little time to ponder your post T and I have to ask you a few questions.
1) First and foremost, you give reference to the fact that you both decided your lives were headed in different directions and decided to call it off. Assuming I'm reading this correctly, I'd say it sounds as if it was a decision you both actually came to and agreed upon amicably. I don't believe this is the case. I actually wonder if it wasn't something that had crossed your mind but was actually mentioned, agreed and acted upon primarily from your ex. Can you please elaborate?
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Nope, it was pretty mutual. The though had crossed both our minds. It was a very hard decision on both our parts As far as I can tell though< I took it much easier at first, and now I'm taking it much worse. We're still both friends though.
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2) How do you feel about women and how they view you?
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I seem to end up as a friend quite a bit, as far as how they view me, I really have no clue.
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3) Do you have low self esteem, a low number of friends, confidence issues, etc?
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Low self esteem - I don't really think I do for the most part, but every so often I have little spurts.
low number of friends - I have a low number of close friends. Acquaintences are all over the place though.
Confidence Issues - same as the Low self esteem, though as of late, I have no problem going up to random girls I find attractive and talking to them
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I hope the above questions don't read as badly as I think they do, I'm only asking so I can see the picture more clearly. You make mention of some pretty intense feelings and emotions but lay no groundwork as to why you feel them.
I'm also wondering if this is the only time you've considered your own mortality. Is this the event that started it all or have there been other times and other situations since or before?
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