[Vautrin]

I agree fully with you. I never saw the point myself, and judging by the "relationships" that I know of, it often ended in total disaster. And awkward situations for just about everyone around those couples. I remember one school trip with pupils from my grade (I was 11, if memory serves), in which the whole class was confronted with the drama of a falling out. Not nice.

I guess, it is a part of growing up, and showing maturity by starting these relationships. But more is needed to keep a relationship, than just starting it. And being mature about it, brings a whole set of responsibilities and needs with it.

I don't think it is necessarily bad parenting if these relationships start per se, but that is really dependent on the maturity of the children involved. Nor do I think that maturity is gained simply by going out with people, or having relationships per se. Being aware of the effects of decisions, and thinking them through are much more important. And as much as you may hate me to say it, but I think your parents can be proud of you, because you display such sound judgement.

You will spend 50-70 years being an adult. Ask your mom and dad how hard that is, so please enjoy your youth while you still can.