Could he be right? Do you have a common law union that must be legally disolved? It seems, at any rate, that he will have some individual rights as the father unless you decide to end the pregnancy (which, based on what little I know about your value system, doesn't sound like an option for you)
Since you've already made up your mind about the relationship, it sounds like you need to speak to an attourney, not a counsellor. Many (including myself) make the mistake of placing resources into counselling when they could be better utilized paying a lawyer. If I were you, I'd have him removed from (your?) home, and place a restraining order preventing his return. Then I'd seriously consider terminating pregnancy (but that's me).
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