[TKDLady]

If I it was me and I left my husband I would prefer he not even mention it. If I left and I wasn't making any effort to get back with my husband then the last thing I want is to be reminded of our wedding day. Now if she has expressed an interest in getting back with you then maybe a nice phone call to let her know you are thinking of her and about the specialness of the day. These are just my opinion. I don't know what the atmosphere is between your wife and you. If you feel like she is coming around let her know you still care and I think a phone call would be better for that. If she doesn't appear to be changing her mind then, in my opinion, anything you do to remind her of that day will make her feel pressured to feel something she may not feel anymore which could turn to resentment.