[TKDLady]

I don't think you will be able to turn off missing her. It is part of the pain process or whatever you want to call it. It is something that only time will help. I won't say heals because I don't believe one truly heals completely. We learn to accept the way things are and move on. There are other women who will make you happy and content should she decide not to come back to you. It will just take time. Maybe keep yourself so busy that you don't have time to think of her so much. Do a little more at work, spend more time with friends in the evenings and on weekends. Don't lock yourself in your house where you are constantly reminded of her. Take your son to the movies more or just out somewhere site seeing. I am afraid I don't have much else to offer. It has been 3 years and I am still suffering from a lost relationship. But it is much better today than 3 years ago. We are friends again. Anyway, good luck and keep posting if it helps. I know I cried on a lot of shoulders here and in my real life during the worst of it.