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I've made up my mind. I'm keeping this one to myself. This guy is number one too old for her, 2 he's in jail for armed robbery....very dangerous and 3...he hasn't showed any interest in this child's life. He was just interested in diddling with my young teenage daughter.

More about this guy that I know:

He married a woman to get into this country and has children someplace. He's not divorced and still lives with this lady. gave my daughter clamidia 3 times!! tells me that he's sleeping with many many other women. he's really no good! If he wasn't such a low life, I wouldn't have a problem giving him a chance but as it stands now, no way!

I put the fear of god into him that time i seen him in court. told him he had no clue who he was messing with and to back off or he'd have to deal with her dad. Not a good thing for him so he stays away from us. He seen hubby. he don't want to go there. That alone will keep him away.

Hubby and i are responsible for erika until krystal is proven fit to take over. She's on the road to recovery and doing very well lately. She's even getting along with her dad for the past week!! (that's a story on its own) which is a huge improvement.

When she meets the man of her dreams later on in life, I will confess to her what her dad and I hid from her to protect her and erika. I don't think she'll hate me because by then she'll realize how much of a loser this guy was considering how old he is. She will feel like a victim in the future. She'll understand, I know she will because she'll put herself in our shoes now that she's got her own daughter.

Thanks for all your advice. I took all of it in and appreciated it all. I might of gave the same advice as most did if it weren't my daughter this was happening to. It is so it puts it in a totally different perspective for me. I am a lioness when it comes to my children. I protect them with all i have and always will until the day i die.

Legal or not, this is my baby girl that he was messing with and it's sick. it wasn't legal when i was that age! statutory rape back then so to me, it's wrong now.