[Vautrin]

Perhaps you co-worker is right. Perhaps not. Try not to think the worst of the situation, but try and keep positive. For a religious person, it makes sense to seek help and guidance and support from a pastor.

The situation is not easy on the both of you, as a seperation is not an easy thing to go through. So she may not be too certain of what she wants and needs either. The fact that she does respond to your calls - on her terms - seems hopeful.

Of course, your wife did make a decision to seperate. Which is not an easy decision, nor one she made lightly. But that does not mean that her course of action is set in stone. She is dealing with the situation in her way, and she will be wondering what goes on in your mind - but at the same time her life goes on as well.

Try to remain positive. Try to work on yourself, and take guidance from God. You seem to be doing well in that respect, and I hope your wife can see the same. And perhaps the pastor can help to make your wife realize this as well.