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Originally Posted by Luba
Only you know, PC, when you can tell them. The wrong advice here could have you out their door (which is something I don't understand). Why would they hate you forever, and why were they so upset when you got engaged?
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I think they would hate me for going against their wishes and for making them feel like bad parents. They dont like that i got engaged because it was to a guy i had never introduced them to. Me and fb have been together for nearly a year and a half, and my parents think we're going too fast.
They arent bad parents in the sense that they have taught me well in many things, being respectful, polite, good manners etc etc but i do wish they would trust me when i believe im doing the right thing.
it makes me feel very disheartened sometimes when i try to breach the conversation with them and they refuse to talk about it or just be so negative an argument always follows.
What i would so dearly love, is their approval of my decision and to know they will support me whatever. It can be very stressful trying to sort it all out and knowing they wont be there.
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Originally Posted by TKDLady
Congratulations by the way. That is so cool that you have such support from his parents. When the wedding is over we want lots of pictures!!
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thankyou
It is great his family are so supportive, his mum wrote a great letter for the lawyer yesterday, explaining that we are gonna go dress and cake shopping in july and his baby sister and brother love me and his grandma too. Its helped and given me a huge boost to keep focused. and im sure if his mum gets her way there will be thousands of photos
its not just his family that help tho, supportive wise, this online family have been the greatest, with me and fb both being here and posting, we've taken in so much good information and help from you all.
Its truly amazing what you can learn about yourself and eachother when everyone gives a bit of love and support.