[TKDLady]

You know your parents and your situation better than any of us. You do what you have to in order to make your transition to the US and to FB as uncomplicated as possible. Don't feel guilty if you decide not to tell them. They brought it on themselves. Once you are settled you can explain your reasons to them if you feel the need, even apologize if you want to but do what is best for you right now. If they truly love you they will come around eventually. Just keep the lines of communication open once you move out.

Congratulations by the way. That is so cool that you have such support from his parents. When the wedding is over we want lots of pictures!!