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Originally Posted by IR_Efrem
Sorry does not wipe away wrongs for me. I hate the word and I am insistent that people never tell me they are sorry. I just forgive, and I do it quickly. If I am in a spot where "I should be saying sorry", I NEVER say sorry, I apologize (sometimes, when I am sure I did nothing wrong, I don't even apologize) for making her feel that way and then I discuss it at length to get a true understanding of why she felt that way about my actions.
Often times it is because we were both emotionally sensitive about other actions.
Sometimes my fault, sometimes not. I've never had any of those 4 situations happen.
Dunno perhaps I am a jerk or just bull-headed, or both. Sorry is a crap word heh
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LMAO....this is pretty typical of guys, and you need not change: Women, as they grow older, eventually realize that there are men, like yourself, that will ALWAYS, even on their death beds, believe that saying "Sorry" is an admission of "having done something wrong." I used to be the same way, until I began saying it, with the
VERY IMPORTANT SINCERE INTONEMENT, and my life became so much easier.
The "discussing at length" crap becomes old, real fast, and just uttering a two syllable sound will end it almost immediately.
