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IR_Efrem · 04-28-2008, 12:16 AM

Sorry does not wipe away wrongs for me. I hate the word and I am insistent that people never tell me they are sorry. I just forgive, and I do it quickly. If I am in a spot where "I should be saying sorry", I NEVER say sorry, I apologize (sometimes, when I am sure I did nothing wrong, I don't even apologize) for making her feel that way and then I discuss it at length to get a true understanding of why she felt that way about my actions.

Often times it is because we were both emotionally sensitive about other actions.
Sometimes my fault, sometimes not. I've never had any of those 4 situations happen.

Dunno perhaps I am a jerk or just bull-headed, or both. Sorry is a crap word heh

04-28-2008, 12:16 AM	#6 (permalink)
IR_Efrem Moderator Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 787	Re: How Do You Say "Sorry"? Sorry does not wipe away wrongs for me. I hate the word and I am insistent that people never tell me they are sorry. I just forgive, and I do it quickly. If I am in a spot where "I should be saying sorry", I NEVER say sorry, I apologize (sometimes, when I am sure I did nothing wrong, I don't even apologize) for making her feel that way and then I discuss it at length to get a true understanding of why she felt that way about my actions. Often times it is because we were both emotionally sensitive about other actions. Sometimes my fault, sometimes not. I've never had any of those 4 situations happen. Dunno perhaps I am a jerk or just bull-headed, or both. Sorry is a crap word heh __________________ Don't drink and park, accidents cause people. "The moon is more important than the sun, because at night we need the light more."