[Star]

If he was younger I wouldn't be doing this. He's 23 and she's 16. He's a diddler in my eyes and she will end up feeling like the victim when she matures and realizes that it's not normal for a 23 year old man to be with a 16 year old girl. she was only 15 when he got together with her!!

He's god in her eyes right now. why wouldn't he be? he's a grown man and she's still a child. He didn't read the letter because it came back saying "not here" on the envelope. He's always stayed far away from her dad and i because he knows what he did wasn't right.

I would never talk badly to erika about her biological father, she's part him. that would just be cruel to do and hurt her. We're not ever 100% sure that he is the father. it's just what krystal says. Hubby and I would want proof first.

He knows that Krystal was pregnant and he also knows that she gave birth to a baby girl. He was at the hospital a couple times before i got there. he made sure he was gone by the time i got there. I asked him earlier in krystal's pregnancy if he was the one who empregnated my daughter (saw him in court once for the first time and confronted the diddler) and he denied it. He's a big loser that prays on young girl's weaknesses.

I have some hard thinking to do. What if we allow this to happen and it turns out he's not the father? I'd wish I'd kept my mouth shut then. I really think that letting nature take its course is the right thing to do for now. It's hiding the letter that bothers me the most. that's the skeleton we created in the closet!