Re: Separation or Divorce?
Chances are that by threatening to tell her friend's wife about their friendship may have angered your wife. She may feel that you're being too controlling over her life and needs some time to think about things.
Your ego is bruised right now. No one person is better than the other, just different. This isn't about your looks or how you were intimate. So please, don't think that.
Feeling lifeless, empty, lonely and unloved are all signs of grief. You've already begun being angry, so acceptance is just a few short steps away and should make you feel better soon.
If she won't provide you the closure you need right now, you need to bring closure for yourself. I would suggest going to Grief Counseling or even Divorce Counseling.
Research your feelings about your wife and find out if you really want her back without the rage, jealousy or grief.
Grief or Divorce Counseling just for you, will help you cope with the right now. Don't think too far into the future, just think of right now.
What would make you be able to breathe more comfortable this very minute?
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