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Originally Posted by <<Numb>>
I was just wondering if any of you actually believe that separation makes the heart grow fonder? or is that just a load of B.S?
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Well, there's this Dutch saying; 'Je weet pas wat je mist als het er niet meer is'. This translates into; 'You only know what your missing, once it's not there anymore'. (I think this saying exists in English too?) Meaning that only when someone is gone you get a true grasp on how important she was for you when she was still there. Personally I find this to be true.
So I agree with Ivy, if you're realizing how much you're missing her and love her now she's gone, then now is the time to tell her. If the same goes for her is still to be seen offcourse, but you shouldn't just wait for her decision to call you.
I'd go for showing her your true feelings, and hoping hers turn out to be the same. Call her, write her a letter, maybe even let her read what you wrote here (esp your very sincere first post). Show her what your true feelings are. If you're just going to wait for her to realize what she still feels for you, yet at the same time let her take a gamble on guessing your feelings, it might be too late. After all time does heal wounds.
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If you want this to be over, it's time for you to call the shots instead of letting her control this break-up.
If you want to reconcile your marriage, it's time to make a stand and fight to keep it together.
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I couldn't have said this any better!