Quote:
Originally Posted by <<Numb>>
" If we are meant to be together, Im only a truck ride away".
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What this means
to me is, she is keeping the option open for both of you to reconcile the marriage.
What she is really doing is prolonging the pain for not only you, but for her by saying this and thinking this. She probably doesn't realize that she is hurting either of you by doing this. I certainly don't believe it's intentional.
If she does keep leaving the door of possibility open, it is going to hurt and hurt both of you bad.
If you want this to be over, it's time for you to call the shots instead of letting her control this break-up.
If you want to reconcile your marriage, it's time to make a stand and fight to keep it together.
What do
you want? What are
your feelings?
Don't worry about what
she thinks or what
she feels. She will let you know those things after you put your cards out on the table. If she doesn't want the cards you laid out, walk away and don't look back.
Possibly in the future, you two could be friends, but not at this stage of grief that you
both have at this particular time.
Keep us updated and be well.