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IR_Efrem · 03-08-2008, 02:56 AM

Sounds like a woman who, "wants to keep her options open"

which is Garble speak for, well I am hurt and confused and I don't know what I really want, So I'll tell every significant person in my life that I still have feelings for them. In your case I honestly don't see anything good happening for you in this situation. If you TRULY want a relationship with her just tell her NO GAMES! Never approach a situation where either of you is emotionally screwed up, it never ends well.

I've been divorced for almost 9 years from my first ex-wife, every once in a while when my feelings are frayed and I'm not feeling emotionally right, some old feelings re-surface, in regards to her. Its been 9 years!! The shorter the time has been since the break-up the stronger those feelings are. I have recognized these patterns over the course of my life and I ignore them because they are nothing but harmful to me.

And in your case, what happens when she is no longer emotionally confused, well she realizes that you aren't what she really wanted...

03-08-2008, 02:56 AM	#2 (permalink)
IR_Efrem Moderator Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 787	Re: my ex may want me back Sounds like a woman who, "wants to keep her options open" which is Garble speak for, well I am hurt and confused and I don't know what I really want, So I'll tell every significant person in my life that I still have feelings for them. In your case I honestly don't see anything good happening for you in this situation. If you TRULY want a relationship with her just tell her NO GAMES! Never approach a situation where either of you is emotionally screwed up, it never ends well. I've been divorced for almost 9 years from my first ex-wife, every once in a while when my feelings are frayed and I'm not feeling emotionally right, some old feelings re-surface, in regards to her. Its been 9 years!! The shorter the time has been since the break-up the stronger those feelings are. I have recognized these patterns over the course of my life and I ignore them because they are nothing but harmful to me. And in your case, what happens when she is no longer emotionally confused, well she realizes that you aren't what she really wanted... __________________ Don't drink and park, accidents cause people. "The moon is more important than the sun, because at night we need the light more."