[Duke]

Sorry I've been avoiding this post simply because I've not had the time to give it a response it deserves.

First off Ivy, I'm really sorry that you had to endure not only the torment as a child but the utter nonsense following. For the life of me I can't understand how family members can simply ignore the cries of one of their own, it simply baffles me? I really wonder how many of these ignorant parents are actually dumb enough to wonder why they don't understand their children; they've had their chances but undermined their child's confidence at every turn.

Sorry if I come across so opinionated of family but I've seen enough in my lifetime to know the difference between good and bad or at least trying and ignoring. I think a lot of parents make the mistake of thinking their way is the only way simply based on seniority which is ridiculous. If you actually pay attention and see things through your child's eyes you will find that it isn't a lie and it isn't made up. It may take a little work to expose the root of the issue but it's your child for Gods sake and YES THEY ARE WORTH IT!!!

I'm very glad that you did do something about it Ivy but where you are today has nothing to do with anyone but you. Yes you may have received guidance along the way but it's completely up to you which path you take.

Where you were, where you are and where your headed is a testament to the fine person you are Ivy and it's an honor knowing you.