I know what you mean about being together for so long that everything becomes comfortable and content! LOVE that! To me, it's growing together, accepting each other's foibles with humour, and just gloriously happy to see each other across the table even though the hair isn't combed! I still hear about women who won't let their husbands see them without makeup and dressed nicely....doesn't happen here, I'm just me!
I must add that I don't look like a scrag ALL the time!
