I've lost a couple of friends to car accidents, one to suicide and one to cancer. Like Meanon said....there comes a time down the road when you remember the person for the relationship you shared rather than just hurting over the great loss.
With drugs....I can see where a person thinks perhaps they could've intervened. However, this hasn't proven to really work at all. You can't help someone unless they chose to be helped. I think contributing some time to a drug prevention group in order to be there for the people who ARE seeking help is a wonderful place to start.
You would be very good at that DA since you have such a sweet heart.
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