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Originally Posted by tkdlady
That does shed more light on the situation. Why do you want him there GG? Sounds like you would be better off without him as well. Isn't your relationship with FB a bit more important than a friendship with a guy trying to come between you two? If FB has issues with him you should respect that more than the other guy's wishes. Sorry, but that is my opinion.
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ah dont get me wrong here, i have and always will put Fb first and above everything and everyone.
its not so much a point of what i should do, at least i dont feel it is. i *have* put him first, i *have* let him do what he wants and tell my friend he cant come, but i dont think its a fair to *ask* me to choose. knowing full well what my answer would be, it just hurts to have been made to choose.
i have also considered what my reaction would be if this situation is reversed. Yes i would be put out by a girl flirting with Fb, however he tells me frequently that this happens where he works, and yes even then knowing it happens upsets me.
However i am always one for communication when i can, if i was going to exclude a friend of his from something id want to talk to the person first, try reasoning.
or perhaps you are all right and im a heartless bitch for all of this and for being hurt by feeling like i was made to choose....
it must be so incredibly wrong of me to want people to get along, or at least try. *shrugs*