[IR_Efrem]

Having had a couple marriages i dunno if i am the right person to shed light on any situation. But.. this is how i feel.

Turn the whole situation around, imagine its FB taking you along with a few other girls. Given the same exact history and you now feel hostile towards one of the gals because of the same exact reasons. Don't say you would have have the same reaction as FB had towards this one guy. That's not part of role reversal in this situation. Now decide how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.

Now for the other side of this.. FB, how would GG have reacted if she was in your situation? With some gal doing the same things. If you don't know then ask her, it might lead you both to understanding why she feels like she is in such an awkward situation. GG would you have been OK with everything and not felt uncomfortable? How would you feel about repeating the situation all over again (if the tables were turned)?

Above all it is important to be honest about your true feelings.


This is about all i can say besides, sometimes we all do things just based on how it will make our partner feel. And sometimes it might be against what we originally wanted in the first place, especially if it means saving their feelings.

I was not there to see exactly what happened, so i cannot say who should or shouldnt bend in this whole thing. Thats up to you two.