[Luba]

Welcome to the forum, ttreaders! I am SO sorry to hear what you are all going through! My deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mother and the fear of what is happening to your sister.

I am at a loss of what to say, except maybe get your girlfriend to tell your sister that people have got to know to get help for her! That way your girlfriend isn't giving away confidences and hurting the trust that your sister put in her. She needs help and fast!