ive asked if they would, but the 3 that dont like him said its either them or him. its left me in a very awkward place, i love them all dearly, and they are friends worth having, they arent doing this out of spite or just a dislike, they genuinely dont trust him or like him. its a rare opportunity for us to all meet, due to me living 3000 miles away from them and them living all over the states, so getting together to meet is a big deal
it'd be a week if we met, i dont think he knows how they feel, he doesnt seem to at least. one of the guys said hes willing to tell him that they dont want him there, but im worried what affect that will have on my friendship with him, with the others, and the cracks it could cause in the foundation of the entire group.
i just want everyone to be happy
