by a husband, wife, lover, friend?
(1) did it devastate you or did it blindside you?
(2) did it take a long time to get over?
(3) how did you handle it...with anger reiterated?
(4) did you fall into a depression or....
(5) did you realize it was the best thing that could have happened?
(6) did you have help (as a friend, family, or therapist?)
(7) if you realized it was the best thing happening, did you celebrate?
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(1) I was dumped by a 'friend' and it blindsided me.
(2) About a month trying to figure out why it happened.
(3) I didn't reiterate with anger towards her because I didn't want to stoop to the cruel words she used.
(4) I didn't fall into depression, I had some liquor instead.
(5) I do realize it was the best thing that could have happened because I don't have to listen to her 'poor me' wallowing anymore.
(6) I did have a wonderful friend who gave me SO much wisdom to handle this. Bottom line: She lost a friend who truly loved her and was there for her through all her troubles and would have stayed a friend forever if this hadn't happened.
(7) I'm celebrating right now with a glass of Carolans and deep gratitude!
