Re: Understanding Motives
That's the problem really, some of us guys are held hostage by the ex because we believe it's in the best interests of the child. We sit back and take all the abuse in the world because all we want is the most time possible with our children. The problem is that this isn't fair to anyone and the only person reaping any kind of rewards is the control freak calling the shots.
I was going to add in my original topic that I felt it was only a matter of time before your kids were living with you but kept that to myself. If I had a nickel for every time I heard that exact phrase said to me, I'd be a millionaire.
Anyway, I think your on the path to righteousness my friend and I wish you all the success with it in the world. It sux when mom and dad can't get along because nobody wins. The sad part is that I think it literally robs a kid of their childhood because there is nothing innocent in the animosity filled world of my child, my way.
Good luck!
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