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Originally Posted by Shopaholic1
Well, I think most of you are being judgmental (and yes I am judging you for it)
What if that mom wanted to join this forum and get some understanding? If you put yourself in her shoes, what do you want her to do NOW--commit suicide b/c she can't forgive herself?
Yes, you can delete my post if you want, I just think she has a LOOONG road ahead if she is ever going to forgive herself. She made a BAD mistake. It must be a nightmare she hopes she will wake up from.
Even you, who say you are understanding, are blaming her as if she did it on purpose 
I think you need to reread your own rules
Pat |
Pat, I consider myself admonished...I honestly never thought of the Mother now, just the child. I'm very glad you made this post! While I don't understand how it could happen, I realize the Mother didn't do this on purpose and has a long road of healing in front of her, if she is ever able to heal!
Obviously, my judgmental attitude in this case is a wake-up call....