[TKDLady]

I have to admit that when I joined I was a tad intimidated by the closeness here and found it hard to start posting. Everyone seemed to be reading each others minds or they were talking about things that happened here long before I joined and it was hard to feel like I fit in. Of course, I joined because of a major heartache which was quite fresh at the time making the lighter posts hard to get into in the first place. I think it took me about 6 months before I realized that Luba was Duke's mom. Merika, Stone and Luba certainly made my first weeks here wonderful and that helped.