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Originally Posted by Merika
Why would someone be considered shallow at 20 years of age if they played the field?
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IMO, shallowness comes from deriving self gratification at the expense of others which is exactly what I did and what she's currently doing. She may be playing the field but it's not all that harmless, people are getting hurt and that part of it isn't fair. I've done exactly the same thing when I was younger. You end up using people for your own purposes and moving on regardless of how much you hurt others. Many people don't just get into relationships with no expectation of commitment, in fact, it's quite the opposite.
That's why I call it shallow. She's abusing her looks and using it to sack guys and then dumping them cold with little or no reason. It's not fair and you end up hurting some really great people along the way.