[TKDLady]

I did the same with my kids after it happened. I wanted them to be more cautious at the beach and to think before drinking. You are right about Dave mourning for the rest of his days. I don't think he will ever recover. As for Michael not being revived, Dave told me that if that had happened he would have disappeared forever himself. For that reason I am glad Michael survived but there have been many times the last few months that I too wish Michael wouldn't have made it. I feel so bad when I say and think that but the grieving process would be able to finish. Now it is like living that day over all the time and I know that is what Dave does. Heck, I do it to. It is horrible.