I didn't mean it in a 'cold kinda way' Calizza. Now I feel bad! I guess I look at dating so much different than a real relationship. It's like a SIMS Realty game....yet live.
It also depends how many times you get hit on. Working in the shipyards....I could easily get asked out 10-30 times a day. (Not becasue I was so special....just one of the few females in site!) How seriously can I really take that kind of a situation or myself? Therefore, you deal with it in a more casual way.
The same is true in going out to a bar here. There are HUNDREDS of guys here due to the Navy base. It's overwhelming. So....you learn to play.
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