With me it was instant but then both were planned pregnancies.
Stoneheather, some people don't love their baby straight away even when it's born but they soon bond when they start to care for the child. Don't worry, it will come. Just as the hormones are making you feel bad now, so the maternal instinct will kick in with time.
I got married when I was 3 months pregnant because I wanted us all to have the same name.
Don't feel bad about yourself, stoneheather. You wanted another child and your ex was a lost cause so there were always going to be two biological Fathers. Your bf is Noah's Daddy. There's a lot to be said for getting the early years out of the way together - they will be more company for each other and you still be young enoughto party when your youngest has left home!!
I bet you'll feel better in the next trimester.
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