constructive critisism is okay if said tastefully of course but if it's an insult, then i do get defensive about it. especially if it's not true.
I have a friend like that who thinks she knows me but she doesn't. it annoys me to the max so i don't associate with her too much. seems that everytime i give her a call to see how she's doing, she's insulting me in some way or another. with friends like that, who needs enemies is my first thought about that and i do let her know that whatever it is she said to me is an insult.
i guess you have to do what feels right for you. some people just like to hurt others.
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