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Originally Posted by Luba
I realize I'm just about always guarded around her because she has this way of 'hitting from left field' because she's not a happy person...and it's when I let my guard down that she's able to 'get to me'...
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We all have friends like that, who go through difficult periods of time and give everyone a negative feedback on everything. So what you can do is tell it to her. I know it's difficult, because you may be looking for comfort yourself, and this person is the least indicated one to do so.
So just see her when you are not vulnerable.
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Originally Posted by Luba
Right now I'm thinking about the good qualities she has...and I know she has a good heart and would be there if I needed her for help....that should be enough for me to get past this...
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I'm ery much like you Luba, forgivving and thinking about the inner good that's in every person. My response is that even Hitler had good inside of him, however that didn't stop him from doing evil.
Some people give off negative vibes. Them, their good qualities should not be this important. What it should count more is if this person is good for you. If she helps and care.
Take care,
D.