Thanks for responding, Twinkle, you're advice is helping. Usually if a person is right in telling me something, I can handle it, especially if I realize it's the truth, which it wasn't. I guess I was shocked because I thought she knew me better...
I realize I'm just about always guarded around her because she has this way of 'hitting from left field' because she's not a happy person...and it's when I let my guard down that she's able to 'get to me'...
Right now I'm thinking about the good qualities she has...and I know she has a good heart and would be there if I needed her for help....that should be enough for me to get past this...
Thanks again, Twinkle!
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