Twinkle - she's got some issues, but so does everyone. she's no different that i was 2 years ago, hell i was way worse (well, except for the bipolar thing). i've been there and done that, which i think is part of the reason i want to be there for her. i know how it is.
vautrin - she hid it pretty well if you ask me, but i am no expert. i had no idea anything was wrong though, i just thought she liked to party alot.
with her friends, she lost all her good friends (and by good i mean no partying) because she started hanging out with her current friends. all they do is party though, other than that I dont think they have all that much in common. i do know, from first hand experience, that once you quit the party life, you will never hear from your party friends again - which i know is going to happen to her.
i am surprised that the aa books recommend that she not be in a relationship either, i would think having support would be best.
ah i don't know.... i have zero problems meeting / dating girls at all, so i'm not worried about that. in the numerous girls i've ever dated...girlfriends, whatever, she was one of the few special ones that i actually felt that "connection" with.
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