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Weiser · 04-11-2006, 06:24 PM

to get dumped...never had that happen before...

well i just got back from a walk with andrea. i guess she talked to one of her old friends on sunday who just moved back to town and is getting sober. they had a nice little heart to heart and caught up, it turns out that her friend is bi-polar and drinking is apparently pretty bad for that. well andrea is bi-polar too (though i never noticed anything wrong or anything) and she is going to start going to aa too and cut out everything. good for her too, cause when she starts she doesnt stop.

thing is though, i guess she was reading some of their books and it says that its not good to be in a relationship when starting aa, unless it was already on going (only been with her for like 1.5 months now). so, sucks for me i guess.

you know, the best times i had with her were when we werent drinking or partying. i'm kind of confused right now. she still wants to hang out and stuff (yeah, i've used that line waaay too many times before), so i guess we'll see how that goes. i know its going to be tough on her if she is really serious, because all her current friends are hardcore partiers.

it's kind of funny, i hadn't done anything for sooooooo long until i met her, and now she wants to stop it all and cut everything off from that part of her. heh, i wouldnt have done anything if i never met her. weird.

so yeah, i'm not really upset or anything, but i did really like her. hell i'm pretty sure i would like her even more now that she is doing this. meh, whatever.

04-11-2006, 06:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
Weiser Veteran Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: The center of the Universe; Toronto Posts: 3,024	so this is what it feels like... to get dumped...never had that happen before... well i just got back from a walk with andrea. i guess she talked to one of her old friends on sunday who just moved back to town and is getting sober. they had a nice little heart to heart and caught up, it turns out that her friend is bi-polar and drinking is apparently pretty bad for that. well andrea is bi-polar too (though i never noticed anything wrong or anything) and she is going to start going to aa too and cut out everything. good for her too, cause when she starts she doesnt stop. thing is though, i guess she was reading some of their books and it says that its not good to be in a relationship when starting aa, unless it was already on going (only been with her for like 1.5 months now). so, sucks for me i guess. you know, the best times i had with her were when we werent drinking or partying. i'm kind of confused right now. she still wants to hang out and stuff (yeah, i've used that line waaay too many times before), so i guess we'll see how that goes. i know its going to be tough on her if she is really serious, because all her current friends are hardcore partiers. it's kind of funny, i hadn't done anything for sooooooo long until i met her, and now she wants to stop it all and cut everything off from that part of her. heh, i wouldnt have done anything if i never met her. weird. so yeah, i'm not really upset or anything, but i did really like her. hell i'm pretty sure i would like her even more now that she is doing this. meh, whatever.