as far as the sperm donors, that should automatically be a closed adoption.
Of course there are special circumstances involved with adoptions and what it boils down to, are the parties involved personal needs and choices.
It really isn't an easy decision to make in any circumstances and it is very hard to say what you would do or wouldn't do until you're living it.
It is one of the hardest decisions that I have ever had to make in my entire life at that time and I was a mess. This wasn't MY biological child, she was my daughter's. I had to make sure that whatever decision we chose wouldn't have a long term effect on all of us. especially my daughter and grandchild.
I hope to god i never have to relive that again as long as i live!
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