You're talking about a flaw in your personality. Getting raped by your date isn't a pesonal flaw. Coping with it will not make you a better person, wil simply make you a survivor.
It's not the miracle pill we're talking about.
I think I may have ADD. I can work and work and re-work, I panick much more easily than everyone else and I can't seem to concentrate on a task that's longer and more tidious. Sorry, taking my little pill makes me less itchier, I'm calmer, I don't feel this overwhelemed by my work.
Of course I should pay more attention to this aspect of my life, but as long as my problem is not spending money I don't have, I'll worry about that "tommorow",
