I think that if the person doesn't want to talk it's because they need to deal with it themselves. It's much harder, IMHO, because friends can help a lot, but then everyone's different.
So you can simply call that person and ask him/her if they're ok, if they'd like to have lunch with you, to simply be around them, even if you never talk about their issue. It can do a lot of help. It shows them that you're not abandonning them.
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