I fell in love with the man who is now my husband when I was a very, very young and naive waitress!
I guess I was one of the fortunate ones; my very first job, was on my own for the first time, scared as h*ll, no self-esteem, and the wonderful Man who hired me was so good to me...even when I was giving refills to the "man I love" for nothing! Even the gentle soul who was my Boss called me aside and said, "Luba, I AM trying to make a profit here." I think a refill cost nothing then, but I took it to a
little extreme!