Well....as you know Stone.....my kids have another half which I wish would go away too. Truth is....it's a part of their heart whether I want it to be or not. He's dissed them, lied to them, failed to support them, missed Christmas and Birthdays...but at the end of the day....he's their dad and they love him.
Trying to block that love....and wierd blood tie...won't work. Just let it be what it is.....and bite your tongue. It's not about you....it's about the child. And even though you wish you could whip their A$$.....there's nothing you can do about it but let your child make his own decisions without your imput.
Trust me on this one....cause I had to accept it the hard way. To this day I wish the SOB would get smacked by a friggin truck and leave them alone. But it's not my call to make.
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