DA, precious time is wasted on trying to get a relationship with someone if they just aren't into it...it sounds like all she wants is friendship, there is no use in beating yourself up trying to make it different...
Make new friends, you are such a good person! I hope I don't sound matter-of-fact and cold about the situation...quite the contrary! I used to spend loads of time myself on friendships that just weren't going anywhere, and I just stopped. No kidding...just said I wasn't going to do it anymore...and...what a relief!!!
Now I'm more into positive relationships and what a difference...less baggage, too! JMHO
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