then you are a much more forgiving person than i am merika because that would be the one thing that kills my marriage. To me, that's betrayal, disrespectful and insulting.
It's the one thing we have that we hold dear to our hearts is our intimacy with eachother. When you choose to marry, you choose to be with that one person, and only that one person for the rest of your life. That person is your partner for life. If he were to go and have a one night stand elsewhere behind my back and i find out about it (and I would most deffinately find out about it, i'm a good detective if i have to be), his bags would be packed and on the front lawn when he got home with the locks changed. the next time he'd see me is at the lawyers office with divorce papers.
How can you truly love someone and take that intimacy elsewhere? If you can do that, then you truly don't love that person. It's over so break it off before you cheat. It's only fair.
My husband and I feel the same way about this issue. He would do the same if I were the one who cheated on him and I can't say that I would blame him! I'd expect that. The trust we have for one another would be gone forever.
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