It depends when this happenes. If you trust him first, then you've got reason to believe he might be doing other stuff he's not telling you about, I'd think about leaving the guy.
At the beginning, my relationship with my current bf was very laid back. We would see eachother once every 2 weeks (no sex), just enjoy eachother's company and taking it real one day at the time. I knew he wasn't working all the week ends and I was convinced he would go out with his friends quite often too.
I guess I liked the excitement, the challenge. I know he could have gone out with tons of other girls in the mean time, but to tell you the truth, if a man wants to do this, wants to get laid, wants to see other women, no checking up, or threats or wild horses will keep him from doing so.
My two cents, anyway
twinkle
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