My brother was like that when he got married also. She had a 3 year old child at the time from another marriage..but they never had one together. They just got divorced after 16 years of marriage and she told him it was the one thing she held against him.
I have no idea why some guys are like that. Maybe they don't want to have to share your attention.....or as you said....they are just afraid. I do understand a guy being hesitant because he wants to provide the best for his children....but your husband is a grown man and certainly not a dead beat. He should have more confidence in himself than that.
I don't think he's the 'counselling' type...so, is there anyone else, other than you, who he is close to who could talk to him about it and find out if there are any hidden reasons?
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