one of my BEST friends is on medication for depression, she used to cut herself, she smokes and drinks and all that bad stuff because she is depressed and i talk to her about it and she tells me that if she didnt smoke she'd cut so it keeps her away from that. i find it hard to deal with depressed peopel considering how happy i am, but even if they can't help being depressed i think its kinda selfish to pile all their feelings on top of their friends, my friend doesn't do that and i'm glad. but as for your friend... i dont think she should put it all on you to help her.
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