IT's wonderful that you can love someone unconditionally. It's the best way of going on with your life.
In the end, we all make loads of mistakes... and the sad part is, no one can or had the right to live your life for you - I mean everyone had the right to make their share of mistakes.
As to the amplitude of these mistakes and the number of them... it depends on how wise one is.
I've had a terrific mom who sacrifised herself for me and for my daughter, but who made us live in an emotionally abusive environnment. I love her to death, but deep down inside, there are lots of things I still cannot forgive and I still have nightmares regarding those times.
So I guess the most important thing is how you get to live with your own deamons. Personally, I envy you for your peace.
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